#what do you mean?

validation of self...

"Mirror-Image"

 ♬♫ '' you sayy you know me but you never will"...

            what do you mean?''♬♫

Some songs fall in our ears unknowingly but  few words or its tune gets lingered  in our mind.

likewise this song fell in my ears during one of zumba session..excluding the other part what remained with me was " what do you mean?.." 

the sentence was strong enough to make me think over what really do we mean ????

life is Simple ...surrounding situation and we ourself while indulging with others make it complicated..

life gets complicated with thinking of ' what does other person mean to me?' and finding our validation in other's life..

Being in medical field,we deal with variety of individuals each single day and having most common complaint dat is stress & tension.
 reason may vary with each individual but base / root cause for all is same - stress tension while  achieving  some more, wanting somemore & proving somemore, we have forgotten the fact that stress tension is outcome of  continuous and complex working of mind and brain..

Few things can work on mind to de-stress it faster than medicine like a pleasant things, good talk,meditation and books... among this good talk and sharing things with open heart and getting gelled with someone is what we are lacking behind..

like the above lyrics goes we only try to know outer part of person n what's inside, what's the soul purpose we lack behind to know..

and if we reach or get to know other person's inner self and soulpurpose then we are lucky and blessed enough..

DO WE HAVE A MIRROR IMAGE PERSON?

What does ' mirror image' means?

referring to a individual with whom we can have crystal clear connection,can share insights openly & always in need and hunger to teach more, learn more and helping in growth of each other...

                ' SUCH PERSONS ARE DIFFICULT TO FIND AND IF YOU HAVE ONE THEN CONSIDER YOURSELF BLESSED'

knowing validation of our's is one's life is one of complex thing..

during one of complex situation of my life what helped me throught this turmoils is ..

Supportive Parents and Questions to self like -

'Is it worth stressing dis much' , ' Is this meant for me?' ,' will it make my parents happy?'

and answer to all it came no..Complicated initially but simple at the end...

Having said that life is simple with only few persons to count-on ,making memories and at the end laughing with that close ones by recollecting it...

Before knowing our validation in other's life lets find our validation in our own life

and life will be simple as it is ...

♬♫"When you nod your head yes

But wanna say no...

What do you mean??? 

Heyy yeah..."♬♫