The Day i found i can write..

25 Things to Self Before I Turn 25.. As the cold winds of winter blow, a chill wave of excitement runs down my spine, reminding me of the day...special day... BIRTHDAY.. The day when you can be totally narcissist and  everybody around gives a chill about it... The day when you are showered  with blessings,wishes and love.. ON THIS 25TH BIRTHDAY OF MINE, I WISH TO  GIFT MYSELF WITH THIS 25 THINGS ,WHICH NO ONE CAN BETTER EXPLAIN TO ME THAN MYSELF.. And i Hope it will be useful to u too and here it goes.. 1. Parents comes first .. Their is this typical teenage phase in everyone's life, where we find parents as most difficult beings to deal with and as this phase progresses and  life happens this 'Difficult to deal with beings again becomes saviours'.. People may come and go blowing us from within with their departures, but the foundation on whom we are dwelling are our parents! 2. Stop Procastination..It always leads to self loss instead ask a...

" Andaman" You sheer Beauty... welcoming island of ANDAMAN.. A warm welcome by you amazed us and kept us jaw droppingly awestruck... Deep into breezes we realized from 39000 feet above sea level that the trip was not only be awesome but Andaman is gonna surprise us with its sheer beauty each single time... Rewinding time,the trip was planned few months back and i was asked 'TOO CASUALLY '  by mommy, knowing the fact that i will be outrageously excited for it... 'Blue seas and white sand' of Andaman are worth Watching was the fact which i had came across many a times..  Being a window seat person, i experienced the above fact 39000ft above sea level n with the speed of 960 km/hr,sitting inside n seeming slowest speed as possible and island slowly revealing its beauty.. i remember the above picture i clicked is one of the best clicked till date.. shortly after the first beautiful island, we came across many small islands rich with dark green fores...

smile please :) smile till you still have teeth ;) :) Our Face is considered as mirror of our self and smile as most sweetest and welcoming gesture.. Babies have most cutest and charming smile and playing and spending time with them is one of remedy of de-stressing mind.. Its often observed that an arrogant person is hard to deal with and many a times we loose our temper but at same time if we  have a genuine smile and a perfect gesture then even an arrogant ones can be calmed down.. Like our fingers each and every human being is having different qualities but what binds them is feeling of trust and compassion.. A smile defines it all , how you smile reflects what's present in your mind ... yeah! thats the power of smile.. 'PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT' is one of the course to which all teens are attracted... what is personality? It is not only limited to dressing sense or wearing makeup...its much more in a subtle way.. personality defines our thinking process...

validation of self... "Mirror-Image"   ♬♫ '' you sayy you know me but you never will"...             what do you mean?''♬♫ Some songs fall in our ears unknowingly but  few words or its tune gets lingered  in our mind. likewise this song fell in my ears during one of zumba session..excluding the other part what remained with me was " what do you mean?.."  the sentence was strong enough to make me think over what really do we mean ???? life is Simple ...surrounding situation and we ourself while indulging with others make it complicated.. life gets complicated with thinking of ' what does other person mean to me?' and finding our validation in other's life.. Being in medical field,we deal with variety of individuals each single day and having most common complaint dat is stress & tension.  reason may vary with each individual but base / root cause for all is same - stress tension while  ach...

"MIND-IT" LIVE A POSITIVE LIFE WITH A POSITIVE MIND.. Human being is gifted with 5 sensory organs, which work with coordination for well being of body and each of them is controlled by mind.. During the process of evolution or 'Shrushti utpatti' our sense organs evolved from 'panchamahabhutas' ie. 5 Great elements and maan (mind)  is developed and having power to control all the above.. Why Mind is given so much of importance?.. lately we discover that a huge focus has been given over 'mind functioning' . The answer to it is.. on psychological basis our mind is directly link with our ego n self (अहम्)..  and on practical or physiological basis, what we call is .. our body thinks &work as guided and directed by our mind and in simple term  called  as 'gut feeling' ..the gut feeling is nothing but logical thinking.. All great books, philosophers and influencers train us and our mind by letting us focus on 'why'....

ARE YOU A CHAI PERSON? A  Warm Writeup for all chai lovers.. ''CHAIVINIST'' a noun which is applied for 'A person having aggressive and exaggerated love for chai'.. over a period of time chai has become a 'Emotion' from just being a habit. 'Emotion' as it is companion in all good and bad moments..bringing warmth and satisfaction in good ones and while a 'Feeling bit better' in tricky and bad ones. 'keep calm and love chai', 'Blood group  = TEA POSITIVE' , 'who needs a guy when there's a chai' , 'chai pe high' are the quotes which every chai lover loves from all his heart and nothing is more crazy and exciting than tagging and sharing the post with another chaivinist.. The love for chai and its necessity changes and subsequently increases with each phase of life. starting from school days specially during exams a cup of hot chai keeps us awake to balance burd...

#Evolution 'AND INTO THE FOREST WE GO TO CLEANSE OUR SOUl' Humanbeing is a powerful and perfect outcome of one among many masterpieces of Nature and God. Humanbeing is distinguished from other living beings due to functioning of Vitals like Brain, Spinalcord &Mind.. The 'power of thinking ' is a true gift from nature to man. Unlike other Quadrupeds, spine of humans is straight which has direct impact on posture and physical strength but is also main  reason for powerful functioning of brain. . ' EVOLUTION OF MAN ' from 'StoneAge ' to 'Homo Saphiens Saphiens ' is the greatest on history of all.. Few among many changes in Human characteristics due to evolution includes - Large and complex  Brain , Ability to use tools and instruments& capacity  of language.. In short ' Evolution Process' gave  birth to a complete new HumanBeing with advancement in physical development, major changes in brain development,the change ...

#BIRTHDAY. .. A day when you growup a year older.. A day which leads you to step further close towards your milestones.. It's not just the year passed and a age grown by 1 year... Its a bunch of new experiences ,lessons,achievements,failures,rejections which we go through a passed year.. A day when we are showered with all wishes and blessings.. A Special writeup straight through heart for the person/ bestie due to whom " I FOUND I CAN WRITE''... True Inspiration and Influencer for my blogging..                 ''HAPPY BIRTHDAY DHEERU'' As you turn 25 today I wish you with all happiness,may all your dreams come true..  a gem of person you are...always keep your helping nature and your ability of Cascading knowledge and learnings , showing correct path to all those who are genuinely interested in their personal growth irrespective of their achievements, career.. ''EACH AND EVERYDAY WITH YOU I LEARN SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL AN...

#WHAT INSPIRED ME TO WRITE..                 Getting up early in the morning a radiant wave of satisfaction arouse in my mind .. morning was unusual as i was completely away  from Hustle and Bustle in a p eaceful place admist  nature..                The ambience and aura was provoking me to think over  'Journey of my life '..How things had changed drastically .. Tough it may seem on its part..but the answer to it lies in 3 words apart. '' SOME GREAT LIFE LESSONS, BITTER TRUTHS, UNFAIR CONDITIONS AND PEOPLES''. which molded and transformed me deeper. Growing up isolating myself  from others, i lived in a bubble ..which burst eventually and made me face reality of life... ''SHYNESS'' got replaced with ''FIRMNESS'',on the day when Hands were trembling to hold  and words were lost to speak result of  'BIOPSY' report of mum's breast lump...  The day not only chang...

#DeepConversation. We meet a new person every single day.. As the saying goes.."'Every single person crossing your path is for a reason.. Never leave that person without knowing the reason ".. Each person has unique quality like fingerprints &best one can do is to admire it.. Some people are in form of blessings to us and having a conversation with dem is a blessing in disguise... Here is the though of One of my close friend who is blessing in form disguise to me.. " #Thinking - A Gift to Human Beings"- I was feeling very fresh when I arose in the morning. There was something very different about the day. Was it because it was very beautiful outside? Was it because I had now settled down in this place after the initial anxiety of adjusting to new surroundings? Or was it that something had changed deep down within me? As suggested by my Guruji, I spent that day reading the first chapter of the Arthashatra - Aanvikshiki Sthapana. There w...

#Selfie- A  single photograph... A click that freezes the moment filled with full of joy, enriching positive & subtle relation with oneself.. From a single photograph to 'Hundreds of photograph clicked at a single time and only the best single one remains with us'.. Then comes Filters and editing apps.. each filter having its own tacts to enhance beauty of photograph.. have you ever imagined 'SELFIE' resembles our life!!!?? A Smiling face,spark in eyes & sweetest gesture like the one in a selfie has power to make other people feel good about themselves, It's heartwarming and boosts up happiness in one's life.. A SIMPLE CHANGE IN US BRINGS SO MUCH OF BEAUTY IN A SINGLE 'NONLIVING' PICTURE ..THEN WHAT AMOUNT OF IMPACT IT WILL EMBED ON THOUSANDS OF 'LIVING' BEINGS. ''Genuineness, Humbleness, Compassion are the qualities which never go out of fashion.'' The filters which are applicable for selfie...

# _Senti-"Mental"_ Everyone once in a lifetime faces this "End of  the world" Situation..we very often get engrossed in People so much that we begin to live our life with their way of living.. Sentiments, emotions are necessary for richness and warmth of relations.. But is it really necessary to become Senti"Mental" in relation? True Relation is not in sweet words,neither from eyes.. * It is subtle and it should directly come from heart * ..  Whenever relation with close ones gets impared,we often shut down the doors of our mind and the first thought that we get is 'this the last best person in my life n i will Neverever get anyone better  than him/her'... That's what Senti-"Mental" truely means.. Humanbeing is a Social animal.. Whenever we close doors of mind. We shut down all possibilities of meeting new people,new opportunity, new learnings... Shutting doors of mind increases selfego while opening it increases self-estee...

# ChainOfThoughts Relationship with any person should always be ur strength and not ur weakness.. Emotional attachment and Emotional Weakness are totally different aspects with World of difference. Emotional Attachment brings Satisfaction,! liveliness and Trust while Emotional  Weakness leads to Insecurities, Fear and loss of liveliness in one's life.. Their is thin line between Attachment and weakness which should never be crossed to keep relationship healthy. Sometimes it do happens we overthink a lot, become nostalgic n try to live in the moment repeatedly and get totally lost in chain of thoughts, Forgetting all the Happenings around us, which creates a negative aura which is absorbed by each n every cell of body leading to some unrealistic thoughts and emotions.. Not only it has impact on one's mind but also on the other person since the wavelength are completely different at that period... *hold on!* It is time to regulate the crossed or shifted line between Emo...

''We humans are gifted with powerful brain ,and amazing though process and we very  often are  completely  unaware about our hidden talents,n sometimes even though knowing it we underestimate it..same did happened in my case ..i was completely unaware about my writing talent till the day i found i can write well...it was "eureka"  moment for me.. being a voracious reader since childhood,i remember i started my reading with suspense story books n was completely driven into it for hours..Books not only helps in increasing our vocabulary but plays important role in personality development, developing thought process..The best gift any one can give or receive are BOOKS...''

                                                                   #chaos She stumbled she stood Her path  was tough but to walk she choose On the path were no one , but chaos were only her companions .. chaos in mind & chaos in heart .. not was the first time , but this time it was tearing her apart.. piece by piece she gelled together coz no one was gonna do it for her.. the more the detatch ..the more she got attatched with her.. Strong,Stable n Firm ,yet the heart beats for some.. Chaos & Chaos there it goes...                       but                                                  ...