#HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME...
25 Things to Self Before I Turn 25..
As the cold winds of winter blow, a chill wave of excitement runs down my spine, reminding me of the day...special day...
The day when you can be totally narcissist and everybody around gives a chill about it...
The day when you are showered with blessings,wishes and love..
ON THIS 25TH BIRTHDAY OF MINE, I WISH TO GIFT MYSELF WITH THIS 25 THINGS ,WHICH NO ONE CAN BETTER EXPLAIN TO ME THAN MYSELF..
And i Hope it will be useful to u too and here it goes..
1. Parents comes first ..
Their is this typical teenage phase in everyone's life, where we find parents as most difficult beings to deal with and as this phase progresses and life happens this 'Difficult to deal with beings again becomes saviours'..
People may come and go blowing us from within with their departures, but the foundation on whom we are dwelling are our parents!
2. Stop Procastination..It always leads to self loss instead ask a question what if i do the particular thing and what if i don't?
The answer to it, will itself bring the change..
3.Its ok To be Narcissist some times..
Its absolutely ok to cherish self loved things..
4.Be Humble And have Gratitude towards every living being.
5.live For others but for self first..
pamper yourself the way you love pampering and cuddling others.
6.Never miss a Chance to Enjoy with your parents..they have done huge sacrifices for you till day,now its time to cherish some outrageously mad, crazy time with them.. teach them to take selfies, pouts,crazy it may look but never miss a chance!!
7. Laugh and make memories even on lamest of the jokes..Harder the laugh deep the moment get cherished in heart !! Grab some crazy weirdo besties and have a good laugh sessions.๐๐
8. Stay Away from fake Relations..not all walking with you gonna stay till end.. everyone coming in your life have certain intention... know the intentions of their walk and you will be never hurted by their existence.
9. Always be present for any philantrophical work.. 'Philantrophy' doesn't always mean monetary help..It is as simple as giving complete Attention and Ear to somebody's talk.
10. know Your pitfalls and work over it.. Discuss over it to only those persons who will take it sportingly, without judging you and also will help u to work over it.
11. connect with people.. The best possible way is with communication.. But stay away from All sort of negative conversations like Talking behind the back, judging...
12. Don't be the one to judge people n also don't be with the one who loves judging others...
13. Everybody holds some Good and Bad Qualities... observe,learn and absorb their good qualities and skip away the bad ones,thus changing our perspective of observing things..
14.Be a good observer...
First step of learning is good observation skills.
15. Importance of subtle changing of roles according to place. - we undergo different roles during different phases of a day.. learning to switch the roles according to places is very important.. Best example is while at home cuddling in mother's lap and while in clinic and in any social place Switching in 'Doctor' role .The one who can switch on different roles with ease finds it easy to deal with others..
16. Speedy practice of -Start With 'Why'..
Asking a question 'why' before any task and getting a satisfactory answer from it..'why i am doing this'...'why do i find comfort speaking with him/her'...'why am i here?'..learn to Find answers to your questions..
17.Don't just read, absorb Books.. They are True constant in life.. people's wisdom and faith may change with time but the lessons learned from books gets embedded forever ..
18.whenever you feel low, binge watch Game of Thrones... 'GOT' Has always been your saviour to pull out from bad situations..
19.Meditate to keep mind calm and also to be focused...Work out more,go for healthy diet.. feel Deeper.. love more.. Go for Adventures ..
20. Respect all irrespective of age, position,status..Be polite while having conversation.
21.sometimes its ok to do nothing and be sluggish.Sometimes coming to Zero gives proper pace to routine.
22. Live for others let them know you care for them..be the one to whom they find comfort while sharing things, be a trust worthy person...
23. Be a Good Listener... just listen to them by fixing your eyes in theirs. A direct heart to heart connection..
24. Do not let your Ego in between relation but also Do not entertain the one who goes against your self-esteem, self respect and ethics.
25. Last but not the least.....
As the cold winds of winter blow, a chill wave of excitement runs down my spine, reminding me of the day...special day...
BIRTHDAY..
The day when you can be totally narcissist and everybody around gives a chill about it...
The day when you are showered with blessings,wishes and love..
ON THIS 25TH BIRTHDAY OF MINE, I WISH TO GIFT MYSELF WITH THIS 25 THINGS ,WHICH NO ONE CAN BETTER EXPLAIN TO ME THAN MYSELF..
And i Hope it will be useful to u too and here it goes..
1. Parents comes first ..
Their is this typical teenage phase in everyone's life, where we find parents as most difficult beings to deal with and as this phase progresses and life happens this 'Difficult to deal with beings again becomes saviours'..
People may come and go blowing us from within with their departures, but the foundation on whom we are dwelling are our parents!
2. Stop Procastination..It always leads to self loss instead ask a question what if i do the particular thing and what if i don't?
The answer to it, will itself bring the change..
3.Its ok To be Narcissist some times..
Its absolutely ok to cherish self loved things..
4.Be Humble And have Gratitude towards every living being.
5.live For others but for self first..
pamper yourself the way you love pampering and cuddling others.
6.Never miss a Chance to Enjoy with your parents..they have done huge sacrifices for you till day,now its time to cherish some outrageously mad, crazy time with them.. teach them to take selfies, pouts,crazy it may look but never miss a chance!!
7. Laugh and make memories even on lamest of the jokes..Harder the laugh deep the moment get cherished in heart !! Grab some crazy weirdo besties and have a good laugh sessions.๐๐
8. Stay Away from fake Relations..not all walking with you gonna stay till end.. everyone coming in your life have certain intention... know the intentions of their walk and you will be never hurted by their existence.
9. Always be present for any philantrophical work.. 'Philantrophy' doesn't always mean monetary help..It is as simple as giving complete Attention and Ear to somebody's talk.
10. know Your pitfalls and work over it.. Discuss over it to only those persons who will take it sportingly, without judging you and also will help u to work over it.
11. connect with people.. The best possible way is with communication.. But stay away from All sort of negative conversations like Talking behind the back, judging...
12. Don't be the one to judge people n also don't be with the one who loves judging others...
13. Everybody holds some Good and Bad Qualities... observe,learn and absorb their good qualities and skip away the bad ones,thus changing our perspective of observing things..
14.Be a good observer...
First step of learning is good observation skills.
15. Importance of subtle changing of roles according to place. - we undergo different roles during different phases of a day.. learning to switch the roles according to places is very important.. Best example is while at home cuddling in mother's lap and while in clinic and in any social place Switching in 'Doctor' role .The one who can switch on different roles with ease finds it easy to deal with others..
16. Speedy practice of -Start With 'Why'..
Asking a question 'why' before any task and getting a satisfactory answer from it..'why i am doing this'...'why do i find comfort speaking with him/her'...'why am i here?'..learn to Find answers to your questions..
17.Don't just read, absorb Books.. They are True constant in life.. people's wisdom and faith may change with time but the lessons learned from books gets embedded forever ..
18.whenever you feel low, binge watch Game of Thrones... 'GOT' Has always been your saviour to pull out from bad situations..
19.Meditate to keep mind calm and also to be focused...Work out more,go for healthy diet.. feel Deeper.. love more.. Go for Adventures ..
20. Respect all irrespective of age, position,status..Be polite while having conversation.
21.sometimes its ok to do nothing and be sluggish.Sometimes coming to Zero gives proper pace to routine.
22. Live for others let them know you care for them..be the one to whom they find comfort while sharing things, be a trust worthy person...
23. Be a Good Listener... just listen to them by fixing your eyes in theirs. A direct heart to heart connection..
24. Do not let your Ego in between relation but also Do not entertain the one who goes against your self-esteem, self respect and ethics.
25. Last but not the least.....
'Happy Birthday to me'.
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